Last Longer During Sex – Explosive Tips to Have Sex Longer and Forget About Premature Ejaculation!

So your looking for a way to last longer during sex? This is the perfect article for you! Almost 30 percent of all men will suffer from premature ejaculation during their lives. Of these men, it is mostly the younger crowd that sees the much more severe cases. It’s simple, if you want to have sex longer, you must learn to control your emotions as well as thoughts. Early ejaculation has very little to do with physicality, so don’t worry, there is nothing wrong with your penis! Read the rest of this article for a few tips on how to control how long you have sex!

First, if you want to last longer, you must learn to stop dwelling on the fact that you ejaculate too early. These thoughts are carried into the bedroom and make it almost impossible for you to enjoy sex and pleasure your partner. Being depressed about your premature ejaculation may lead to a dysfunctional relationship and even depression. During sex, sexual anxiety can cause you to ejaculate too soon. Ironically, sexual anxiety is caused mostly by the man focusing too much on ejaculating too soon while having sex!

The best thing to do in order to get your mind off of the possibility of prematurely ejaculating is to concentrate on something in the room and actually analyze in thoroughly during sex. This will help you keep your mind off of blowing your load too soon and allow you to last longer during sex. You may argue that by trying so hard not to think about ejaculating early, you are thinking about it even more. However, if you are genuinely concentrating on something else in the room, and analyzing every aspect of it and actually taking an interest in it, it is extremely difficult for your mind to focus on something else.

If you have sex without a condom, you are more likely to ejaculate quickly. For this reason, always remember to wear a condom. A condom will really help desensitize the penile shaft and allow you to have sex longer without feeling too aroused. I would not recommend using any type of spray to numb your penis in order to last longer because they may cause irritation or temporary erectile dysfunction.

Sex Education For Minors

Here is how it was when I was a kid. We learned about sex in school, in church, and of course, in our neighborhoods. Some kids had little comic books with hard-porn sex illustrations. I can only speak for the boys. I started to hear of sexual experiences from boys when I was in elementary school. Most of them were not true but we liked to hear them and live them vicariously.

We had little experience with girls but boys have an interest in girl’s anatomy when they are very young, barely out of kindergarten, and they will try to explore their interest perhaps asking a girl to show her private parts.

Masturbation was common, speaking only for the boys. Group masturbation or “speed” contests occurred. There were occasional homosexual acts. Some boys began having sexual intercourse when in their early teens. These were called, “bad kids.”

When I was about 12, my father took me on a 20 mile hike telling me about the birds and the bees. He mainly told me horror stories about masturbation. I really didn’t know what he was talking about. I was much more interested in the old pits used for catching black bears, the snakes, and the fact that my father knew all the wild flowers by name. The most interesting thing was his story about the bear trainer who was sparing with a black bear who took only one swing at the man. He was knocked out for several days, more like a week.

Later a doctor was brought to the church to talk to the boys about masturbation. To say the least, we all had a great interest in the subject. Again, I was one of the youngest boys and got into a fit of the giggles. So did a couple of other boys. It was all new to us!

I might add that not all boys took up masturbation, just most of them.

Some boys had wet dreams. These were often told in detail. One boy had a dream where his ROTC instructor was really a woman in disguise. That way his admiration for the instructor and his desire for sex were satisfied in one swell scoop.

Sex was “totally revealed” in junior high school and high school but not in the classroom. We were now associating with girls and we played such games as “Post Office.” We often mentioned the game “Pony Express,” which was said to be “Post Office with a little more horsing around.”

In “Spin the Bottle” or “Post Office” the reward was to go into a dark bedroom with a girl and receive a kiss. I don’t remember how the game of “Post Office” was played but I remember “Spin the Bottle,” a game we had played when we were tiny kids.

Some boys were now dating, Many of us were not.

So that is how we got our education. I remember a short morality lecture in my high school gym class, but that was it.

The fact of the matter is that we never had any in-depth sex education.

Sexual Codes

I don’t think that in nature there is a code of conduct in regard to sexuality. Other primates have their own ideas. Some are very promiscuous to prevent confrontations. Others are more discrete, the males vigorously guarding their harem. This occurs with many other animal species.

Young animals are not always safe from adult males. If a female will come into heat, or estrus, if her young are killed, the young are in grave danger. Male lions are known for this behavior. The reasoning given by those who study such critters is that they must spread their DNA quickly or lose the chance to other marauding males. I think they know nothing of such talk. They just want sex.

A Zulu chief once said that clothing led to promiscuity, not nudity. When everyone is nude, nobody has a question about the anatomy of males and females. Some male children are bathed with their mother when very young and know about her. But most children know little of the opposite sex’s anatomy.

Now days, because of television, children are exposed to nudity and sex. Actually, you can not see sex organs of a woman when she is nude. You see some pubic hair maybe, but not anything else. Television and movies until recently did not show the sex organs of men. Well, now you see that.

I suppose that hard porn leaves nothing to the imagination. That is something that I have stayed away from. Well, when I was a kid, a friend freshly home from the navy, showed me some pics he bought in the Philippians. Such images tend to stick in the mind.

Part of our problem is that we paint sex as wicked rather than as natural as scratching your nose. In some societies, teenagers are left to their whims, that is if we have not killed those societies off, they take off from the community and have sex. Fidelity comes only after marriage. Such societies simply face the facts and they don’t have our problems. Babies come and, in at least the Amazon, they come from the Man in the Moon. Nasty fellow!

Some societies think that a stranger needs food, water, warmth, shelter and sex. They are know to share their wives with guest. You must travel north to see that but is all existent in other societies. We call those “Primitive Societies.”

Some northern climes seem to promote sexual laxity.

I think that in most civilizedcommunities, sex education in schools is mandatory. Abstinence before marriage is often promoted and that works for many teenagers. The complaint here is that the emphasis may be “too much” on condoms and pregnancy prevention rather than local moral issues.

Here are my opinions for what they are worth:

Teaching in the Home

I asked my wife when she taught our children about modesty. She said when they start dressing themselves. In out society we often judge people by how they dress. We can teach our children to be modest and we can teach them about clothing and how it looks to others.

I asked her about how she taught other issues of sex to our children. She said that I taught the “hard stuff.” I told he that I couldn’t remember doing it but she said I did. It must have been during our Monday night family meetings when we taught a lesson, played games, and had refreshments. Based on that, I assume I taught the tenets of our church. So, maybe that is how you can teach your children at home. Spend on evening with them each week and teach them a lesson, have some fun, eat, and plan out the schedule for the week so everyone will know how the twins are getting to soccer practice and how Mary will get to her piano lesson.

I never taught any details of sex. We taught it belongs in marriaige and that is a binding force between couples and brings children into the home.

Teaching in Religious Organizations

If your religion has youth groups, that may be a good place to teach kids about ethics and moral conduct. Our church has the young men and young women separated most of the time. That leads to an opportunity to teaching specifics. One leader taught that the boys have a little “machine” inside them that brings on wet dreams occasionally and to leave it at that. One said that masturbation is stupid. The boys are not to masturbate but to be morally clean so they can represent the church throughout the world.

Teaching in Schools

I think sex topics should be taught early and often. In the early years, specifics of anatomy and reproduction could be taught. As children get older, they can be taught about sexually transmitted diseases such as was once taught in the military, the risks, the dangers, and prevention. The old military films showed some awful results of gonorrhea and syphilis. They showed male parts falling off and a soldier causing his wife to give birth to a blind child due to his gonorrhea. When I was in the army, the thinking was changed and replaced with morality training.

I think that sexual norms can be taught, helping students learn what is expected by them in society. Fidelity should be emphasized. Why? Because a person who is promiscuous before marriage may be apt to be unfaithful after marriage. That leads to much sorrow, legal problems, financial problems, and trauma to parents and children. This however, I understand, is not true in some parts of New Guinea. Fidelity usually works there despite premarital infidelity.

Premarital Counseling

I think a lot of misunderstanding and problems between newly weds could be removed by premarital counseling. Men can be very naive about a women, her needs, her concerns, and her anatomy. I realize that with time, things will come together but it would be better if these things were taught sooner. There are still many newly weds who are not experienced in sexual matters.

Unfortunately, there are many adults who have been married for some years who don’t know what should be going on. That is why we have so many sex clinics.

A knowledgeable family doctor can give good advice to brides and grooms.

Fly Old Glory!

The Art of Sex – 5 Hot Tips to Enjoy Love Making

The art of sex does not only require a strong physique, fitness, smart and curvy bodies. It also needs depth in mutual understanding, emotional attachment, warm feelings of caring and sharing for the spouse, erotic synchronization and true intimate love between two persons of opposite gender. The art of sex is not a time-bound activity. It is, in actual fact, a process of taking yourself to the height of heart-felt delight along with your partner. If the sole purpose of engaging in sex is enjoying it mutually, then you have to change your thinking pattern to that of a team-player.

There are still millions of married people around the globe, male spouses in particular, who just take sex as a pleasure-oriented ritual. They do not care about whether their soul-mates also enjoy the same level of physical union as they do. It is merely because their primary focus is initiating intromission, as soon as two nude bodies touch each other, to achieve orgasm. They do not understand the essence of the art of sex in marriage.

Marriage is a journey that you are bound to continue, on every single track of life whether it is social, financial, personal or sexual, in maximum harmony. Sex is neither the only activity of a marital relationship nor an occasional expedition. The art of sex is a combination of techniques, physical gestures, creative movements and a mutual desire to experience gratifying contentment. You do not have to be a qualified sexologist to learn the art of sex. Simply adopting and practicing the following hot tips can bring a sensational change in your sex life.

1. Be patient and avoid early intromission

Two exercises are very useful in building stamina; sit-ups for men and kaegel exercise for women to delay orgasm and it makes your sex more thrilling and rocking.

2. Prolong foreplay and delay touching genitalia at an early stage

The art of sex begins with foreplay that is more sensational and enjoyable in the whole episode of sex. You can enjoy every moment of foreplay provided you stop focusing on orgasm. Every part of human body, both male and female, has certain hot spots which erotically react to kissing and soft touching.

3. Try brushing kisses on erogenous zones before indulging in full kissing

Depending on the structure of the tissues of your lips, you can experiment brushing kisses on the whole body of your spouse or just on erogenous zones. The sizzling effect of a prickling tongue smoothly massaging your spouse’s body creates waves of incredible sensation through your own body too.

4. Use finger tips for soft caressing

Instead of using the whole hands, try soft caressing with finger tips that also radiate stirring currents of erotic energy.

5. Never skip a tongue massage during foreplay

Another colossal feature of the art of sex is tongue massage that runs from face to toes, using both the tip and the whole of your tongue, after taking a shower together. It would be like adding more spices to your pasta dish. I strongly suggest to avoid extreme oral sex during tongue massage. You can create many new body gestures to allure and appease your partner during foreplay making it a cherished experience for days and weeks. The only important factor in enjoying foreplay is synchronization of movements. It should be reciprocal to keep the fire continuously kindled.

The art of sex has no fixed limits and it is not worth much consideration as to where to start the foreplay. Just follow your emotions, your moods and the nature of ambiance which you have created or you are in by chance. It is advisable to have in-depth talks about foreplay that would also enhance an erotic rapport between both of you.